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The Old Man & his Garden

Traversing the street,
peevish and sad,
imprisoned and bound,
by rules, fear, and masks,
I’m lost in a myriad
of disheartening and
fretful thoughts.
Right now my mind
can do nothing but ask,
“When will the world
wake from this viral
curse named COVID?”

I pass by a fence
of cold metal bars,
barricading an old man
maskless and oblivious
to the lunacy beyond.
He pores over his plants
as he has, I expect,
for eons or more,
loving nature with his
loving nature, lost
in his rapture with life,
sure that as all madness
has in his long life,
this too shall pass.
His tranquility is
mute but palpable,
dissolving the bars,
permeating the street,
converging with me.
I pause to watch him,
he looks up and smiles
for just a second, or,
was it forever?
It is enough.

I continue to home
and through my gate,
shucking my mask
of COVID malcontent.
Wasting no time,
I dash forthwith to
my small garden sweet
with bloom perfume
and hummingbird whirr,
resolved to cultivate
my own loving nature
by loving nature.

Thank you, wise man.


Photos courtesy Ismaili Fjori and Gustavo Fring, Pexels

The Old Man & his Garden © Susan L Hart 2020



Be the Change You Wish For

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” This simple but powerful statement is oft attributed as a quote by Mahatma Gandhi. However, apparently the actual full quote by Gandhi was:

“We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do.”

The essence remains the same. We must stop waiting for others to make the change we desire. We as individuals ARE the change.

Are You Waiting for Change?

It’s so simple really, and yet we persist in believing that other people or institutions are going to change our circumstances for us. We see this tendency when people are looking for life partners. They get swept up in those initial love feelings, and they believe that the other person is going to “complete them” for a lifetime. Divorce statistics say that this sort of thinking is faulty. When we adhere to that philosophy we cheat ourselves from our own soul work and growth. We should be striving to complete ourselves.

It is not someone else’s job to complete us, nor should we be waiting for external forces to change the world for us. Yes, we elect our government officials, and we should be able to have faith in the fact that they will work for our good. Unfortunately, currently we live in a world where we’re feeling increasingly betrayed by the officials we elect.

It’s time to change our thinking towards how we’ll contribute to and make the world a good place. It is so very fundamental. You cannot receive that which you yourself are not willing to give.

You desire more kindness in the world? Be kind.
You desire more love? Be loving.
I could go on with more examples, but you get the idea.

We Must Each be the Change

We build a world around us that is of our own vision and making. That’s not just at a micro level of our immediate surroundings. These behaviors ripple outward. Other people learn from us by example, then together we build a better world. We should also expect from our leaders what we are working to build for ourselves. Otherwise, why should we keep them around?

So now I ask you, what kind of world will you personally choose to build today? Whether you believe it or not, the fate of the world rests in your own hands.


Be the Change You Wish For © Susan L Hart 2020


The Search for More in You

Hello, and I hope all is well with you today.

We are certainly living in some trying times. During the process of blogging for the past year, the most important theme has been about evaluating ourselves, our strengths, and how we might think differently about our own self-reliance and use that to navigate through these times.

Also, how to recognize that we actually have a lot of personal power to make the world a better place. The fate of the world and our futures is not out of our hands, but rather it is in our own minds and hearts.

I am currently offering a gift booklet of some reader favorites from the past year. It’s an introspective read about my most amazing subject ~ You (Us).

If you are interested, just click on the book cover below to claim your gift copy.


Thank you for following ~ Susan